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The last few weeks have been let’s say challenging, I will admit after the second, third row with my beautiful selfish spoilt young people in my house,I was struggling to  remember that I was the adult, You know the saying give an inch and they take a mile, not in this house these two take the whole of west London, Whatever you give they always want that bit more, So took hold and expressed my feeling, thoughts, of their actions, I am happy to say we all apologized  and we are all friend again, If I really have to take any responsibility Then I have to remember my daughter is not a little girl anymore and to respect and support her new journey in life, I can do that, as long as her journey is not too far away from home. To any parent who may be suffering due to  the fact you have a teenagers, Firstly My heart goes out to you all,  Stay strong, All families row and I believe this is healthy, you may not like what your child is saying but you are showing them what they have to say is important and they are free to express themselves without fear of judgment. images

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When life is a struggle, your confidence, self Esteem is at all time Low, If you can’t fight for yourself, do it for your little Hero’s, I am truly blessed to have my children and loved one who has always supported and loved me as I have then. Strong unbreakable unconditional Unit, team Family.

I love you all Team, I wish you all the love and Happiness in the world Love Mummy Kell’z xxx <3<3<3

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I am very aware that some people of all ages are just not nice and their hearts are full of hate, and you will never be able to understand how someone can take so much pleasure from others misfortune. but if you flip this there is man, women and child suffering, struggling with life, poverty, being abused in every way, Mental health Issues they do this in silence, you would never know to look at them some of their actions and  attitude makes them look disrespectful colds and heartless, I have had the pleasure of meeting some beautiful young people, Life has dealt them some raw Life cards. I try to help where I can, from my experience These young ones want someone  to listen to them believe what they are saying, 

The advice I give is that even tho they might not deserve to have such a hard life Never think the world owes you and there is no easy way or a free ride because if that’s what they are waiting for Good luck with that,  If you behave like a d**k you get treated like one, What do whinny little bitches who stamp their feet absolutely F**K all not on my watch.  The responce they get from people would be so much more positive if they changed thier attitude and show . some respect, A few occasions I have taken myself of groups after some of the comments that have been made about the youth of today, I would never justify any violent, criminal activity that is sadly happening every day if we were to inflict the violence and Hate that these grown adults were suggesting that makes them no better, I am not going to repeat the cruel disgusting comments, I will not highlight or publish their filth, what I will say is if they are parent themselves I would be very worried about the children welfare Mentally and physically,. they should be visited by the child protection team one of the groups A vile women told me I am a nutter and I’m wired because I didn’t agree with their nasty cruel Comments, this women’s profile picture was of a beautiful baby well if you are a mother Shame on youdownload

 

I completely understand why people would be angry and upset My heart goes out to the parents and family of these young people that have lost their life, I’m not here to say anyone should help but maybe not to judge on the first appearance this person could have suffered in many ways or have serious Mental health issues.cropped-sign-e1520816343539.jpg

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This is truly heartbreaking as there is no reason or justification This little man has lost his life because of the stupid-ness that is going on in our streets Kids killing each other well I hope whoever lite this fire it haunts you for the rest of your life Shame on you R.I.P Young one the Angels will take care you,  My love and thought are with you and your family God Bless x 3b67f496db9f93e7249b2281a6603891

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No one said it was easy 

That feeling you get when you find out you’re pregnant, or when your baby kicks for the first time, the Labour wow that hurts. Then you see your beautiful healthy baby it was all worth it The love you have for this little person. all your dreams come true <3… 

Then as your child gets older, Brothers and Sisters come along and if you’re very lucky all your children stay as angelic as they were when born, I repeat Lucky, and for the unlucky ones, The shit hits the fan and your children turn in to Teenage nightmares. The tears, the self-doubt,  the stress, and the repeated question “Why why, why” and “why me” and you try everything possible to make thing better, to try to understand your child’s mood swings, their hurtful words or as much as you give them they want just that little bit more. How many times have you thought about walking out the door not looking back? or the people who think they know better and have all the idea’s  and they don’t even have  a child, Don’t you just want to poke them in the eye, don’t do this, violence is not the answer  For all the parents that are going through this Trauma, Keep going be strong there is an end to this bleak tunnel, I send you to love, strength and the will to carry on, you are amazing and I am proud of you.

To the parent who believes their job is done when your child reaches a certain age Get in the real world,  Step up and get your child off the street, They are your responsibility as a parent the good and the bad, your job is never done as a parent, Everyone slags of the young people for how they behave, Why do they think it’s not wrong to kill each other or bully, intimidate people, not to have the social skills to treat people with love and respect This starts at home, Teach your child’s Life skills to help them to protect themselves and others Teach them how to grow in to a positive kind adult, If they can’t hear then they must feel If you have tried your hardest then no one can ask for more.

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Yes it is a little uncomfortable even a little Embarrassing, The Doctors/Nurses that are doing the screening must have seen all shapes and sizes, Fanny’s that is, I dread it when I know my smear is due because I feel like every other woman, But I still go, Living longer being able to spend time with my family making beautiful memories means more to me then a few moments of feeling uncomfortable and Embarrassed.

“How did my Mummy die”   “She was too Embarrassed to have a smear test” A bit harsh you may think but true, 

Women are being urged not to miss their smear tests as screening rates hit a 20-year low and a charity admits ‘the Jade Goody effect is long gone’.

Latest statistics show attendance of cervical screening in England is the lowest for two decades, having fallen to 72 percent. R.I.P. Beautiful Lady ❤