I got that wrong,
I don’t think I am alone when I say, Well I hope not lol I have made mistakes and made decision that didn’t work out and at times my choices were poor as a mother, woman, and person.
How I dealt with this in the past was to never show my weakness or fuck-ups to keep your head high and hope no one sees your struggles because you should never show your weakness allowing people to use it against you, this would just put extra pressure on myself from my healing and recovery. I know now that was wrong in so many ways.
To be able to say I made a mistake makes me human, I made them trying to improve my life thinking it was for the best.
A real friend will love you and support you in times of need, not use it against you.
Be very particular about the people you have in your life
I can hold my head up high and say I tried my hardest, nothing can be used against me because I do not seek approval or care what others think of me I have enough unconditional love and support around me that if you have a dislike for me Ok see ya.
What I have written above all starts from Lack of confidence, Self-esteem, Self-love and the inability to Express yourself in a positive confident way.
For taking the time To read x
Written by K.L.S
R.I.P Young one’z
My thoughts on the man calling these three young people who died on the train track Scum, Why would you say that? I’m sure these boys Family’s really don’t need to see that. I expressed my love and thoughts to the boys and there family’s Just one of the comment I got from a very rude man
“they deserve everything they get, Hope the train hurt them when it hit them” ” They got no-one to blame but themselves” Vandal Scum,
I am not saying they weren’t wrong for what they were doing and I can’t imagine how the train driver feels but to call them names and say they deserve death this is from adults and they wonder why the children of today have the attitude and lack of respect for human life No parent should have to bury their child My love and thoughts are still with these boys and there family’s regardless to those who said I was wrong.
I felt like I was being bullied because I showed compassion These nasty cruel people have reinforced the fact there are very little love and compassion in this world
Part 1 Kids parties when you have 10- 15 kids that need feeding myself I had to do this Four times a year it can work out very expensive Belief me doing these little things yourself you will save so much and no difference in taste if not better,
Checked the Prices from a known supermarket I Can get 6 Cheese pizza’s for £8 That is not the cheapest ones and even if I have to buy the sausage and cheese £12 saved at Least £ 6-7
2 slices each child and extra for the Cook lol x
8 french sticks £2 Garlic, butter and herbs £3. 2-3 slices each Saving at least £3-4
And as for Jamie fucking Oliver its okay for him to judge other parents the way they feed their children because he is in a position to feed his children with the freshest and healthiest of food,
Low-income family’s who are being bullied by the Government are blessed they are able to put a dinner on the table. I don’t know who he thinks he is but until he is paying my bills and feeding my children or has ever experienced Poverty GO AWAY YOU MUG
I think it really depends on the age of your children and circumstances, but Harder as they get older, I am speaking from a women’s point of view but this will apply to the wonderful Daddy’s out there too.
Firstly Everyone is entitled to have relationships/friendships even if you have children I believe that your children must be your priority whatever relationship status you have and their feelings to be considered
From my personal experience, I stayed single for many years because of my past relationships and the effects of Past abuse I know I would never stay in an abusive relationship So I never feared to expose the children to that, to be honest, I was more concerned about myself as I never felt totally confident that I had recovered or had a clear mind thoughts So be sure of the relationship you are in before bringing them home
Age 1-5 is probably the easiest age to introduce someone new and for a partner to build a relationship with your child as they adapt to how you are running your life. Do not under any circumstance Allow your child to call your partner Daddy always correct them even if their biological father has no contact Stepparents can be a great parental Figure eventually Believe me Honest really is best.
Age 5-10 When you are in a new relationship and you all loved up please bear in mind this age a child will more likely feel pushed out, unloved and unwanted especially if it was just you and them before your new partner came along if this happens you will have a whole load of problems, issue to come with your child as they get older. Take things slowly at first try not to stop thing you and your child do together on a regular basis maybe ask your child if your partner can come one week If they say No DO NOT just bring them anyway. Explain that this is your friend and you hope you all get along so your child understands that you are not asking permission you’re saying what is happening and nothing will change between you. Make sure your new partner Knows that your children are your priority any decent fella will understand that and if they don’t Jog them on x
Age 10 -16 Good luck lol
Now is where the games begin, make sure you don’t change too much at this age children have a way of making a parent feel very guilty and will use this weakness to get what they want Please don’t tell Fibs, you have given in to your child’s demands for an easy life like myself I’m going to keep this short as long as you are still looking after your children loving and supporting them and you haven’t abandoned them and run off with your new fella always take the childen in to concideration but that doesnt mean your life has to stop.
Just more sadness
The body of a newborn baby found in woods today
This is the heartbreaking moment a Moses basket was taken to the scene where the body of a newborn baby was found in Heywood.
The tragic discovery was made in a field near George Street off Peel Lane in Heywood just after 7am on Wednesday
Reported in the Manchester evening New
I think it is an Automatic reaction to Judge the women who has done this. Well unaware of the circumstances I won’t, make comments, But why leave the presious little Buba out in the cold at least leave them where they will be treated with Love and respect