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The last few weeks have been let’s say challenging, I will admit after the second, third row with my beautiful selfish spoilt young people in my house,I was struggling to  remember that I was the adult, You know the saying give an inch and they take a mile, not in this house these two take the whole of west London, Whatever you give they always want that bit more, So took hold and expressed my feeling, thoughts, of their actions, I am happy to say we all apologized  and we are all friend again, If I really have to take any responsibility Then I have to remember my daughter is not a little girl anymore and to respect and support her new journey in life, I can do that, as long as her journey is not too far away from home. To any parent who may be suffering due to  the fact you have a teenagers, Firstly My heart goes out to you all,  Stay strong, All families row and I believe this is healthy, you may not like what your child is saying but you are showing them what they have to say is important and they are free to express themselves without fear of judgment. images

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Page 1,              What is Depression

Page 2 ,             Symptom

Page 3 ,             Reasons why

 

Depression.                 _ front page

Decreased energy

Fatigue

Diminished activity

Insomnia

Loss of interest.

 

Physical changes

Unexplained achy, pains

increase/decrease appetite

Psychomotor agitation

Emotional pain.                 

Prolong sadness

Crying

Feeling of worthless

Loss Of self-esteem

Despair.

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Thoughts of death,

Suicidal thought,

Feeling detached.

 

 

 


Domestic violence and Abuse can happen in any household, rich-poor, all cultures, Same sex, or straight relationships/marriages. Also teenagers/young people

The information below was from

the Office for National Statistics

  • An estimated 1.9 million adults aged 16 to 59 years experienced domestic abuse in the last year, according to the year ending March 2017 Crime Survey for England and Wales (1.2 million women, 713,000 men).

  • The police recorded 1.1 million domestic abuse-related incidents and crimes in the year ending March 2017 and of these, 46% were recorded as domestic abuse-related crimes; domestic abuse-related crimes recorded by the police accounted for 32% of violent crimes.

  • There were 46 arrests per 100 domestic abuse-related crimes recorded by 39 police forces in the year ending June 2017.

  • The majority of victims of domestic homicides recorded between April 2013 and March 2016 were females (70%).

  • A decision to charge was made for 72% of domestic abuse-related cases referred to the Crown Prosecution Service (CPS) by the police, and of those that proceeded to court, convictions were secured for 76% of domestic abuse-related prosecutions. 

  •  Information from NSPCC

  • The definition of domestic violence in England and Wales was expanded in March 2013 to include victims aged 16 and 17 years old. It also now includes controlling behavior and coercive behavior.

  • Around 1 in 5 children have been exposed to domestic abuse

  • third of children witnessing domestic violence also experienced another form of abuse.

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I will be posting somethings on Domestic Violence and Abuse, I would ask if you could read all of the contents to understand what I’m trying to make people aware of, as it could be misunderstood or judged if not read fully, I have written some short stories, The people do not relate to anyone known to me but the situations, action, and behavior are based on my own experiences and research and other DVS, Feel free to let me know what you think and share any post that may help… Many thanks, Kellz x

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When life is a struggle, your confidence, self Esteem is at all time Low, If you can’t fight for yourself, do it for your little Hero’s, I am truly blessed to have my children and loved one who has always supported and loved me as I have then. Strong unbreakable unconditional Unit, team Family.

I love you all Team, I wish you all the love and Happiness in the world Love Mummy Kell’z xxx <3<3<3

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I am very aware that some people of all ages are just not nice and their hearts are full of hate, and you will never be able to understand how someone can take so much pleasure from others misfortune. but if you flip this there is man, women and child suffering, struggling with life, poverty, being abused in every way, Mental health Issues they do this in silence, you would never know to look at them some of their actions and  attitude makes them look disrespectful colds and heartless, I have had the pleasure of meeting some beautiful young people, Life has dealt them some raw Life cards. I try to help where I can, from my experience These young ones want someone  to listen to them believe what they are saying, 

The advice I give is that even tho they might not deserve to have such a hard life Never think the world owes you and there is no easy way or a free ride because if that’s what they are waiting for Good luck with that,  If you behave like a d**k you get treated like one, What do whinny little bitches who stamp their feet absolutely F**K all not on my watch.  The responce they get from people would be so much more positive if they changed thier attitude and show . some respect, A few occasions I have taken myself of groups after some of the comments that have been made about the youth of today, I would never justify any violent, criminal activity that is sadly happening every day if we were to inflict the violence and Hate that these grown adults were suggesting that makes them no better, I am not going to repeat the cruel disgusting comments, I will not highlight or publish their filth, what I will say is if they are parent themselves I would be very worried about the children welfare Mentally and physically,. they should be visited by the child protection team one of the groups A vile women told me I am a nutter and I’m wired because I didn’t agree with their nasty cruel Comments, this women’s profile picture was of a beautiful baby well if you are a mother Shame on youdownload

 

I completely understand why people would be angry and upset My heart goes out to the parents and family of these young people that have lost their life, I’m not here to say anyone should help but maybe not to judge on the first appearance this person could have suffered in many ways or have serious Mental health issues.cropped-sign-e1520816343539.jpg

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Because I thought I knew best, I should have known better, I should have left when you begged and pleaded with me Mum, Your always right The many times you said He is going to kill you one day and it’s not right a mother to bury her child, I wished I Listen to you mum. xxx

Love you always from your daughter in heaven