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To Improve yourself you have to look at your Flaws as well as your positive strengths I believe I may be the worlds best Sulker, not too bad at self Pity, well until I realise no-one is taking any notice and just a little bit dislike the word No. Moving on quickly, my point is if you have a negative thinking Patten it is very hard to get a positive outcome I may have said a few times over the years Why me? why doesn’t anything go right? mainly because I couldn’t think straight and always believed nothing would work.
Express yourself, let it go and Bin it and start again with a clear positive view on the issue or problem, that’s not easy, I hear you, It has taken me a good while to achieve this and that’s because I was unsure how to express myself, so thats when I begain to write it down, this really does work, because you can be truthful, blunt and even rude, this is never going to be shared, The only problem I had was mine written on paper as I didn’t use the computer so I couldnt just delete them, If any- one needs somewhere too Bin it I am offering my Email for anyone to let it go and I will delete it strictly confidencial, Then you can start to look for ways to help you Improve yourself or a situations you are not happy with.
My love for research and reading, I have gathered so Much information, tips on Law, parenting, sexual health DV many more so Please feel free to mess me if you need anything there is always a way to solve or at least a way forward God Bless
I feel both Happy and Sad writing this, but its time I want to be able to have friendships even a relationship without anything to hide behind
Letting it go to be free to move on to a Happy Positive life x
My open letter,
is to all those in the past who Kicked me while I was down, Judged me, Exposed me Treated me like a piece shit I would like to Thank you all,
it’s you guys who have got me through the years when I was picking Myself up Not all losses are a Lose I have gained so much.
I am a strong independent woman everything I own is there because I put it there, I raised my beautiful children without the need to beg any man I have unconditional love and support around me so Nough love to you all Be Happy.
Ps, Be careful you don’t trip up all the mistakes and secrets you made in the past, The ones you missed while you were watching me, OOOPPPPSSS Sorry did everyone think you were perfect hahahah only messing unlike yourselves To expose, judge and to take pleasure from someone misery, Na that’s not me positive vibes only, One love x
a violent, sexual, verbal relationships take courage, time Planning and in most cases, every last bit of physical, mental and spiritual strength you have, most victims would have done this three or more times. I can’t count how many times I have heard people say ” why doesn’t she/he just leave?” or “Why do they go back”? , even suggesting they must enjoy being hurt, or they have made this up.
The fear, can be like you may never felt before, making you feel sick to your stomach or actually being physically Sick, Some Abusers wear you down taking your Self Confidence, Esteem and worth to Zero then just to show full control they will rip out your soul leaving you so weak, then you hang on for dear life to your abuser because they are the only thing Keeping you alive and can turn off your life support whenever they choose(not in physical sence), you are now in a state of confusion not knowing right or wrong Fake or real to stay alive in these circumstances is most probably the hardest thing you will ever have to experience.
A lot of people will try to make sense of the abuse and the abuser’s behaviour also believing them when they say sorry it will never happen again, unfortunately, most people can not turn their feelings on and off desperately hoping the abuser will change like they have promised no one wants to walk away from the one they love breaking up their family, Feelings of Shame failure, Family and friend finding out if you have hidden the abuse from them I am sure there are many other reasons why.
You really do not know what it feels like unless you have been in the same situation, So hold back on your judgement, if you have no kind words or are unable to help keep your opinions to yourself, please.
To be a victim of rape is horrendous the effects on your life that comes after can be devastating changing your whole life as you knew it
No-one has the right to force you to have sex or other sexual acts It is a criminal offence if all parties do not consent,
The 2010 Domestic Violence Act reads as follows: “Domestic violence constitutes any act of omission of a perpetrator which harms injures or endangers the health, safety, limb, or well-being whether, mental or physical of the victim or tends to do so and includes causing physical abuse, sexual abuse, emotional, verbal and psychological abuse
The first case where a husband was charged with raping his wife in the USA happened in the 1970s while England only criminalised it in 1991.
Both men and women have said they have woken up in the morning in bed with some random not knowing how they got there or any recollection of what they did sexually so, in reality, you couldn’t have given consent, One-night stand I hear you shout I do not judge anyone and if that what you want to do then go for it but when you are aware of what you are doing, and who you are doing it with from a woman’s point of view If you don’t remember having sex with one man you wouldn’t know if his five friends had sex with you after Not only are you putting you health at risk bur also your life
Fact: In law, consent to sex is when someone agrees by choice and has the freedom and capacity to make that choice. If a person is unconscious or incapacitated by alcohol or drugs, they are unable to give their consent to sex. Having sex with a person who is incapacitated through alcohol or drugs is rape. No-one asks or deserves to be raped or sexually assaulted; 100% of the responsibility lies with the perpetrator. Everyone has the right to live their life free from the fear and experience of sexual violence.
There are amazing charities that will help you if you have been raped or sexually assaulted also The police have specially trained officer who will help you Personally I have only heard good things Please get the help you have nothing to be ashamed of
The National Rape Crisis Helpline can be reached on 0808 802 9999 or on minicom 0208 239 1124. The Helpline is open every day of the year (including bank holidays) between 12 and 2.30 and 7 and 9.30pm. We are also open on weekdays (excluding bank holidays) between 3pm and 5.30pm
Journey update March/May 2018
My writing is getting much better if I say so much self lol Still learning but I’m enjoying it My writing goal is writing a first-class article published in a magazine I am not going to put a time limit because I know I have lots of work to do My blog is my greatest achievement Again I know work has to be done to get even a little closer to some of the amazing quality blogs I’m prepared to put the work In. Thank you all the lovely people who have supported me following and liking my post Nough Love to you all
Kellz Tarot ..
I have done some of my best reading ever this month, but the one that means so much to me was for a young man who has the most amazing beautiful kind Soul. Jay, Seen you grow from a boy to a special, Loyal Gorgeous Man I am honoured and blessed to have you In my Life. I wish you only love happiness and all your dreams to come true with them ones looking over you X
My goal is to build my client list to offer an Honest respectful and compassionate Tarot reading to best of my ability.
Life up and down feeling a bit a lost I was doing a lot of work with little return I asked myself shall I give up walk away? this is what I would if done in the past well I ant that Gal no more, remembers why doing this.
To improve my Life, skills and to have a happy, positive Life so I’m back on track
OPEN LETTERS SO I CAN LET IT GO MOVE ON X
I have not written names as I would not wish to upset or disrespect the families and friends of these Angels that have been taken to soon, without their permission, but I want to continue support and awareness to the growing violence on our street and to send a message to the Government and the Mayor of London.
your priority should be with finding ways to prevent the Murders that are being committed nearly every single day, and if you cant do this for the respect of your Crumbling Country, Do this out of respect for every single Angel below and their families for their Devastating Loss.